I am not very motivated to celebrate Christmas.As much as I say I have to for Matthew I can't even put the lights on the fake tree that has been up for 5 days now.......... Sophia,I am not trying to give anyone a hard time (meaning you or Tony).I was only wanting us to have this as a safe place to tell Donny or each other how we feel without others reading it since we are his closest family and in the most pain,emotionally and mentally.I know Katie is also very upset about him but I didn't want her to read what we were feeling because I thought it would upset her more or set her back in her grief...She hurts enough about it and I want her to feel better not worse...That's why I didn't invite her to this site...Do you think that was a mistake? Should I invite her?